If you and your spouse have split, family mediators may assist you reach an agreement over child custody. The mediator will not take sides, but will assist you in reaching an agreement on how to continue caring for your children.
For instance, where they reside, when they visit each parent, holiday and Christmas arrangements, child support payments, and the specifics of alternative forms of contact such as video calls.
While family mediation agreements are not legally enforceable in and of themselves, the concept of what makes a mediated agreement “legally binding” may get rather convoluted.
Parenting arrangements are an ideal illustration of this intricacy. A parenting plan is drafted by a mediator for the parties, outlining the arrangements for their children and their shared parental obligations, as agreed upon throughout the mediation process.
This plan is signed by the parents after they have had the opportunity to consider and seek counsel; once signed by both parties, it is deemed “legally binding” since it is now a legally enforceable contract.
This is a signed contract, so if one parent were to violate the provisions, the other parent might file an application to court and provide the signed contract as proof of what was agreed upon.
In instances involving children, the court will always make judgements based on what is best for the kid, but they are unlikely to depart from the initial mediated parenting plan without a compelling cause.
Therefore, for the majority of parents, a written parenting plan has a sufficient amount of legal validity, since the parents realise that it may be used as admissible evidence in court if one parent deviates from the agreement.